You’re having problems with let’s say: your parent(s) (Or Other people,
they’re mean, egotistical, non-reasoning,
acting dement or truly are dement in a sense,
that works to their benefit and self-flattering projection of false self-worth.
When you notice they won’t remember or refuse to remember, and you record things or ask them to write things down, they start getting difficult, using silencing tactics,
such as blameshifting, or changing topic real
fast to blame you for something to their benefit.
They lie allot, break promises, slander, and libel, to coerce, create a false status, quickly reverting back to reasoning and excessive kindness to further coerce and create a false sense of security, dependency, codependent.
The Person with narcissistic personality traits may probably also have a compartmentalized personality disorder,
where their traumas are repressed memories in compartments where they form different personalities that they rotated and shift from for each situation differently.
Such as work, love life, family, communicating with different friends, etc.
In short, the person with a narcissistic personality disorder isn’t able to fully
self identify his or her own narcissistic behavior, Again, not able to.
There are ways to get what you need from a narcissistic person without escalating more fights and unnecessary power hold struggles.
By flattering excessively, best is to detach from toxic relations quickly, however, if your parents are narcissistic and you are in a codependency situation, you must find a way
to get from them what you need to become independent as quickly as possible, which can be very challenging as they bully, silence, lie, oppress, spin facts, slander, libel, take possession of your privacy and private possessions as well as my try to take hold of your health status against doctors and law enforcement, etc…
More on narcissistic abuse by samvadkin
which i have found to very helpful.
Narcissistic Abuse: From Victim to Survivor in 6 Steps – YouTube
Overstanding, the narcissistic personality disorder, and forgiveness thereupon out of th facts that he or she is unable to be “sufficiently self-reflective on their lack of reasoning to be” “just” in their actions and behaviors” Is th(e) the best way
to remove innerconflict that torments you
from these narsistical abuses by loved ones.
Detachment from such toxic relations means:
you may love them.
you do not need to love them.
You are not to blame for not loving them.
your not rude for not loving them or detaching them.
Just remove anger through forgiveness and let go and detach, not asking for anything from him or her anymore if able to.
I do consultancy, on a broad range of topics as well as narcissistic abuse. (link)
In love and light
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